Hi! My name is Nigel Beckles, author of ‘How to Avoid Making the Big Relationship Mistakes!’ I am a Relationship Specialist, Certified Relationship Coach, Speaker, Work Shop Facilitator, Online Adviser and contributor to the award winning movie documentary ‘Looking For Love’ now available on DVD.

During my childhood, I witnessed several incidents of Domestic Violence, which impacted me deeply. In the past, I have made some very poor relationship choices that caused me a great deal of pain, confusion, and frustration. My personal experiences, along with a keen interest in psychology, made me determined to discover why I clearly had a pattern of becoming involved in unfulfilling relationships. Following two years of intense reflection, self-development, and personal growth, I decided to write my first book and spent five years researching what some of the top experts in the field of relationships had to say to discover the real reasons why so many end in failure or even abuse. I have developed effective strategies, many of which are included in my first book.

Topics include:

• Intimate relationships
• Effective communication
• Challenges in relationships
• Differences in values and/spiritual beliefs
• Trust issues
• Jealousy and insecurity
• Financial issues
• Sexual incompatibility
• Intimacy issues
• Building self-esteem
• When professional support may be required
• The positive aspects of a healthy relationship

The Facebook Group ‘Reflections on Abusive Relationships’ (ROAR) created over ten years ago, is a Relationship Abuse Survivors Network that provides information and support for people who may be going through a difficult time or are in “Relationship Recovery.” We are a group of administrators who have helped a lot of people from all over the world who were having problems or were confused about their relationships. We give practical advice and support online. You can visit us @ https://www.facebook.com/groups/reflectionsonabusiverelationships

With many years of experience guiding men and women through difficult relationship issues, I also specialize in Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse. Men and women with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are often dangerous predators who frequently devastate the lives of their victims. My mission is to help others avoid the emotional distress of making poor relationship choices and guide them towards finding a partner for a healthy, loving relationship.